I married my first husband at 18 got divorced at 19. Got married the second time at 21 and divorced at 23. Got remarried at 24 and divorced at 26. I am now 31 and will never get married again. I am dating five guys —nothing serious. I fall in love to easily and I overlook their problems which never go away in marriage. Two druggies and a drunk have made me realize what a terrible judge of character I am when I am in love.
JanetRelationships October 28, 2025 at 10:27 am00
No kids so far. I would like to have a baby before I am 40 however. I had a miscarriage when I was married to husband number two but it was early in the pregnancy. Janet 1 month ago
Well Janet we know you are a three time winner in divorce court—you aren’t ugly because you are dating 5 guys you want to get knocked up so you obviously put out. Besides being 31 what else should we find out about you before we all fall in love with you. BTW. Never is a very long time. Are you sure about that????? Randy 1 month ago
Randy you are a smart ass but I love it. Never is a long time but divorce is painful, infuriating and expensive so my idea is next time I fall in love it is going to mean a long term commitment to each other without the accompanying piece of paper. Let me go back in time to 18. I had known him since junior high school-a jock and tough guy and he liked to get high. He was my first at 17. Got married the summer after graduation. Within 6 months he had beat the crap out of me twice and the third time I called the cops. I have not seen him or heard from him since the divorce was final. Number two I met at a party he was high then but so funny and so clever. I fell in love immediately and we got married about 8 months later. Unemployment, money problems, wild mood swings stealing shit was there from the beginning of the marriage. I tried to change him get him help finally had enough and moved out. Divorce was easy as he was in jail on a possession charge ( with intent). Number 3 was a guy from HS that I knew was a big drinker and party animal. Again couldn’t change him couldn’t get him to admit he needed help. To this day he is still a big drunk. Thirty years old looks like fifty and he still thinks he is twenty. Mentally he is more like 16. Ugly divorce took a year. Cost me a lot of money.
Does that fill in the blanks? Janet 1 month ago
I thank you for that info. I was thinking more about what you look like and what you like to wear. That sort of thing. I am sorry you had such bad experiences but you are older and wiser now. Things will improve Randy 1 month ago
Older for sure. Wiser I hope so. Remarkably I am pretty happy with my single status and not having children to raise on my own.
Info— I have very curly light brown hair with green eyes and what my Mom calls a button nose. I am not fat but I could stand to lose 20 lbs. I am 5’6” tall and weigh about 155 lbs. My body is pretty decent I have average sized boobs and my ass is where I carry that extra weight I need to lose. I have decent legs and arms. I don’t wear a lot of makeup or lipstick. I have my privates waxed so I am bare down south. In any event if you like a chick with a bubble butt and nice legs I can qualify. Janet 1 month ago
You are making me want to know and see more Ms Janet. A few more questions if I may. Do you still do drugs like you did with your husbands? Do you get drunk very often? In the last 6 months how many guys have you had sexual encounters with? What do you do for a living? How long have you been doing it? What section of the US do you live in ? Do you a social media presence? Are you interested in anyone currently ( either men or women)? Randy 1 month ago
That is a lot of questions Randy. I guess I can answer most if not all of them. I have never been big into drugs. I have tried a few but never anything injected or any of the hard core shit. I have not had anything other than prescribed medication in a long time. I still like to have a drink but I don’t get drunk very often almost never nowadays. I am a customer service representative for a large company. I have been in this position for 4 years and with the company for 5. I live in the mountain west part of the country. I have a facebook account but seldom use it and I dropped my snap chat about two years ago. So much false and fake stuff on social media that I just gave up on it.
Now for the stuff that isn’t really anyone business but mine but in an effort to be transparent I will answer as best I can. I am a single woman and I date plus occasionally go out with friends so I interact with people outside of my work environment. On more than one occasion that interaction has resulted in sex. I have had intercourse with the five men I am presently dating. In addition to them I have had two others that I dated but am no longer seeing. I have not had a hook up type one nighter in the last 6 months but I have had a few in the past. Currently I am interested in the five guys I am dating but nothing has progressed past that point. No plans to become exclusive with anyone and no one has asked me to move in with them. I am not interested in anyone that is female and to this point in my life have never been intimate with another female. One question for you?? Why all the questions? Janet 1 month ago
Just trying to get a sense of who you are and. How you think. I hope I didn’t offended you. Randy 4 weeks ago
No offense taken. You know a lot more about me than I do about you. Want to change that? Janet 4 weeks ago
Good Luck Janet. I think you will do fine.
Do the 5 guys know that you are dating others? Ramón 3 weeks ago
I am sure they know they are not the only one in my life. We are all adults and know it isn’t exclusive. I figure I am not the only one they are doing either. Janet 3 weeks ago
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Does that fill in the blanks?
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Info— I have very curly light brown hair with green eyes and what my Mom calls a button nose. I am not fat but I could stand to lose 20 lbs. I am 5’6” tall and weigh about 155 lbs. My body is pretty decent I have average sized boobs and my ass is where I carry that extra weight I need to lose. I have decent legs and arms. I don’t wear a lot of makeup or lipstick. I have my privates waxed so I am bare down south. In any event if you like a chick with a bubble butt and nice legs I can qualify.
Janet 1 month ago
Randy 1 month ago
Now for the stuff that isn’t really anyone business but mine but in an effort to be transparent I will answer as best I can. I am a single woman and I date plus occasionally go out with friends so I interact with people outside of my work environment. On more than one occasion that interaction has resulted in sex. I have had intercourse with the five men I am presently dating. In addition to them I have had two others that I dated but am no longer seeing. I have not had a hook up type one nighter in the last 6 months but I have had a few in the past. Currently I am interested in the five guys I am dating but nothing has progressed past that point. No plans to become exclusive with anyone and no one has asked me to move in with them. I am not interested in anyone that is female and to this point in my life have never been intimate with another female. One question for you?? Why all the questions?
Janet 1 month ago
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Janet 4 weeks ago
Do the 5 guys know that you are dating others?
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