My husband caught me flirting on line with a guy that I used to have a relationship with in college. He was furious and wouldn’t accept that it was just a flirtation and nothing had happened. I had a relationship with the guy once but have not been in the same room with him in a very long time. He got more pissed off the more he thought about it and he couldn’t talk about it with out yelling at me. I told him he should go someplace and cool off and he went ballistic and started pushing me around the bedroom. I tried to get past him and out the door and he slapped me so hard I fell down. He grabbed me by my right arm and pulled me up and slapped me several times. I almost lost consciousness he hit me so hard. I finally curled up in a fetal position on the floor and he finally stopped. We slept in different rooms last night and I have big bruises on my arm where he grabbed me and my face is red and swollen. I am not sure where we go from here but I am not going to be his punching bag again!!
SofiaRelationships April 17, 2026 at 1:38 pm00
You should contact one of the abuse hot lines and talk to a professional. You have seen that he can become violent instantly. Seek help!!!! Norman 1 month ago
Report him to the authorities...divorce him.... how old are you? Both? Jim 1 month ago
Who is the better man—your husband or the old flame? BJ 1 month ago
Who is the better man—your husband or the old flame? BJ 1 month ago
My husband was a college football player and he is very physical by nature. I knew he could get mad pretty easily before we got married. The one and only time he hit me was 8 months after we got married. He only hit me once but it was super hard and it broke blood vessels in my eye, my eye swelled shut. I was a mess. The next morning I told him if he ever hit me again I would divorce him and have him arrested. In 7 years he has never come close to hitting me again. Jill 1 month ago
So what happened?? Jimmy 1 month ago
You are brave Jill......Do you have kids? Billy 1 month ago
What Happened??? I got a huge wake up call— I am married and shouldn’t be acting like a teenager. He is an adult and shouldn’t be beating the crap out of the woman he loves. We are working to strengthen our Marriage and to repair the damage we have both done. I pray we have both learned from this experience. Sofia 3 weeks ago
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