I am almost 50 years old. I have worked in restaurants and bars my entire life. You name it I have done it. Wait tables, wash dishes, tend bar , hostess , bar maid Done it all. Now my confession. For 5 years I was an exotic dancer (stripper) in several clubs. Topless, Nude, Lap Dance, VIp Rooms and even escort type back room. Yes I have sold myself to a lot of guys and a few women as well. I did it pretty well and had lots of success. I was in demand and had no problem getting work. Like most things it was fleeting. The boobs started sagging the ass lost its tone and the look of youth left. Instead of being a hanger on I gave it up and went back to restaurants. I am the hostess at an upscale steak house now and I always wonder if any of my customers know who I was once????
How many guys did you have sex with? No kids? Ramón 9 months ago
Ramon
No children—long story but I couldn’t conceive before I went through the change a few years ago. Number ???? Lots in the area of 300 probably more. Naked Nomore 9 months ago
Have you ever experienced an aggressive man that hurt you or scared you? Humberto 9 months ago
I am going to be a little gross in answering the hurt question. Lots of ways to be hurt and scared by a man. I am a rape survivor and it was very traumatic. I was attacked by a complete stranger in my home when I was 26. He broke into my apartment on the first floor (patio door) when I was asleep in the bedroom. I woke up to him standing over me with a gun in his hand. He told me to be quiet and do what he told me or he would kill me. He made me undress and lay on the bed face down. He undressed as he held that gun in my back. He stuck his hand between my legs and stuck a finger in my ass without any lubricant. When I screamed in pain he hit me repeatedly in the back of my head. I was dazed, hurt, scared and wondered if he was going to kill me. He turned me over and slapped me hard a few times. I was seeing stars and bleeding from my nose and mouth. He then entered me and repeatedly told me he would kill me if I made a sound while he pounded away on me until he finished. He bit my neck as he moaned then got off me and made me turn over. He put that gun up against the side of my head and again stuck his finger in my ass. I didn’t make a sound while he repeatedly rammed it up my ass. After what seemed like forever. He stuck his penis in my ass and he pounded away until he finished a second time. I was in terrible pain and bleeding by then. He just laughed at me then hit me with his fist so hard I saw a flash of light then I was out cold. I woke up later he was gone—so was my purse. The cops came after I called —took me to the hospital and did a rape exam. I spend three days in the hospital. They never found him or made an arrest. I have been to lots of councilors and groups. I don’t have nightmares anymore but not sure I am ever going to get over it. Naked Nomore 9 months ago
That is terrible. You poor thing. I hope you find fulfillment and happiness in your life. Your attacker will face his judgement day and pay for his sins. Jakson 9 months ago
Hope you find a loving partner and you spent with him the rest of your life Bob 9 months ago
Ok so you are 50–no kids—divorced for years-you have done everything there is to do in a Restaurant and Bar—you have been an exotic dancer and prostitute —plus some asshole beat the shit out of you and raped you twice. So what is it that sets you apart from all the other women??? What is your biggest attribute and what do you wish you could change about your body?
I was a bouncer at a Gentleman’s Club in my past and I have to ask—-Did the guy that Raped You look familiar to you but you couldn’t tell the cops because of the work you did at the club?? My boss paid cops off all the time so the girls could work in the back rooms without getting hassled. Don 9 months ago
Be nice with a Lady Jim 9 months ago
Hey Jim this is a dude that was raped!! anonymous 9 months ago
I should have known better than to put this out there in the first place. I am not going to overreact and get all emotional. Have a wonderful life everyone and God Bless Naked Nomore 9 months ago
I didn't realize it was a guy.. good luck anyway Jim 9 months ago
I read all this and I don’t see anything that tells me this person is a male. What am I missing???? Ken 9 months ago
I was raped at 19 and I understand the fear and trauma she went through. I am upset by the cavalier comments this person made. You should at least have enough courage to sign your name. Bev 8 months ago
13 Confession Comments
Ramón 9 months ago
No children—long story but I couldn’t conceive before I went through the change a few years ago. Number ???? Lots in the area of 300 probably more.
Naked Nomore 9 months ago
Humberto 9 months ago
Naked Nomore 9 months ago
Jakson 9 months ago
Bob 9 months ago
I was a bouncer at a Gentleman’s Club in my past and I have to ask—-Did the guy that Raped You look familiar to you but you couldn’t tell the cops because of the work you did at the club?? My boss paid cops off all the time so the girls could work in the back rooms without getting hassled.
Don 9 months ago
Jim 9 months ago
anonymous 9 months ago
Naked Nomore 9 months ago
Jim 9 months ago
Ken 9 months ago
Bev 8 months ago