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Questionable Intent

Questionable Intent

I was a single working girl when I arrived at an acquaintance’s party last December. I was just stopping in for a drink on my way to dinner with my parents. I walked in the door and was immediately greeted by my friend and the sexiest man I had ever laid eyes on. I am talking about movie star good looking and a body to match. I had one drink and talked to a few people before heading to dinner. The next day my friend called and asked If I was ok with her giving this guy my cell number. I said sure do it right this minute.
He called me the next morning and we started going out. We really hit it off and by the fourth date I took him home and let him spend the night. I found myself falling in love in a big way. By March the world had turned upside down with Covid19 and I was furloughed and he was working from home. He got real stressed about his job and we stopped seeing as much of each other. By May he was not around much at all. Now in July he is gone from the face of the earth. He still has his townhouse but is never home. He still has his cell but never calls or return my calls.
I am moving on but I honestly don’t know what I did wrong. We never had a fight or even cross words. Can anyone help me understand what happened???
Jan Relationships July 04, 2020 at 3:06 pm 0
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Hi Jan
I hate to tell you this but you have been played by an insensitive ass. Ask yourself a few questions. Did you have him over for meals a lot? Did you pick up the tab for drinks or movies when you went out? Did he have lots of excuses about not having money? Did he ask for expensive presents?
Look at the facts. He is stressed about work. You become unemployed and he starts to distance himself. He has moved on to some poor girl with more money. He is living with her and letting her pay for everything.
Hold your head up and be thankful that he is out of your life.
Kit 4 years ago
You should be thankful he didn’t have more time to take advantage of you.
Danny 4 years ago
He simply lost interest. You were more into him than he was into you. Sounds like you were moving pretty fast in this thing. That can scare some people off.
anonymous 4 years ago
Multiple theories. Since he is not home, he is probably living with a girl. You did nothing wrong. I tend to agree with the money theory.

By the way, what do you look like, are you attractive? May be he felt he was too good looking for you?

In any case you deserve an explanation from this guy
bobby 4 years ago
I was way more into him than he was into me obviously. I opened my life to him and let him in. I gave myself to him physically and emotionally. I would have done anything for him and I would never have hurt him in any way ever. Isn’t that how love is supposed to be!!’n




Jan 4 years ago
I am what my Dad likes to call A damn fine looking woman. I am somewhere between drop dead gorgeous and sexy as hell. I am usually able to walk into a room and have most straight guys look at me with interest. I think you would like my looks Bobby
Jan 4 years ago
" I think you would like my looks Bobby "

I already do Jan!!. I would fill the vacuum that he left in no time and worship you like the Goddess you are!!
bobby 4 years ago
Actually Bobby I am just your average goddess. LOL. But honestly a lot of guys and a few girls think I am hot. I am on the taller side at 5’9” and I have long light brown hair with green eyes. I weigh about 150 lbs. I have long legs and an infectious smile. I wish I had bigger boobs (36C) and smaller hips. But I still look pretty good in a bikini.
Jan 4 years ago
Very early in a new relationship to be using the L word. You can't know each other that soon. It's more like infatuation and desire. Good odds you were smothering him.
anonymous 4 years ago
Jan you are indeed a tall girl! I am 6'. I always wished I had a tall girlfriend!
bobby 4 years ago
Hi Anonymous
You are probably right but he was the one that told me he loved me first. I guess I should not have believed him.
Jan 4 years ago
Hey Jan
Did you mention to him that you might be pregnant??? I did that once and he left town like a rocket.
Beverly 4 years ago
I want to have a child with Jan. I have to improve my poor genes
bobby 4 years ago
How does having a child improve your genes? All I did for me was make my ass bigger.
Beverly 4 years ago
You are right Bev, I should have said that I want my children to have better genes than mine. English is not my native tongue
bobby 4 years ago
I really don’t want a baby with anyone right now. I have Leary’s lot from all ou you. Thanks
Jan 4 years ago
Shit I hate spell check. Learned a lot
Jan 4 years ago
Hi Jan, how old are you and how old is the runaway guy?
bobby 4 years ago
Bobby— I am a 30 year old woman just turned 30 in June. I am an older goddess but I am aging well. LOL He is 31 he will be 32 in September. He has surfaced again. Just long enough for me to give him the crap he left at my place and tell him to have a nice life asshole.
Jan 4 years ago
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