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I lost my virginity

I lost my virginity

When I was 14 my Mom had a live in boyfriend for about three months. They broke up and she meet my step Dad and have been together for seven years. My Mom’s live in BF was always kind of funny and a little wild. I won’t say he was crazy but he was more of a kid than an adult.
He got me drunk on tequila and I lost my virginity to him but never told anyone. I was kind of embarrassed that it happened with him and just kept it to myself. In the past when the subject of WHO WAS YOUR FIST. came up I lied about it and said it was a kid at church camp.
No that I am in a serious relationship I want to tell him what happened to me. I wonder if I should keep it to myself.
Donna Relationships November 25, 2022 at 4:27 pm 0
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Was it consensual? You dont have to tell anyone about your pat. When you meet someone you start from zero and keep the past for your self
bill 2 months ago
How old are you now? Did you enjoyed that first time?
jim 2 months ago
Consensual when a 30 year old guy gets a 14 year old girl drunk and fucks her. I never said stop never said no but I was so drunk I really didn’t know what I was doing. It happened and I didn’t try to stop it so as consensual as I let it be.
Donna 2 months ago
I am 22 almost 23 now. No I didn’t enjoy it at all. I was sloppy drunk and it still hurt a lot. He wasn’t trying to be gentle and he didn’t give a shit that I was so small. All he wanted was to pop a teens cherry so he could brag about it to his buddies
Donna 2 months ago
I am sorry you were practically raped. I hope you can get over it.
If you feel you need to share that experience with your current partner go ahead and I hope he understands! If not he does not deserve you
jim 2 months ago
You were lucky you didnt get pregnant
bob 2 months ago
Doona
You are not alone. There are a lot of us survivors of abuse by family/ friends around. I was repeatedly raped by a family member as a child. Reach out if you need support.
Cindy 2 months ago
How old were you when this happened
jim 2 months ago
Jim
I assume you are asking me my age and not Donna as she defined her age. I was raped by a family member from the age of 11 until I was 13 when he was arrested and later incarcerated for committing the same offense on a girlfriend. I am now 43 years old and proof that you can survive with lots of help from others.
Cindy 2 months ago
Cindy, I am glad you were able to overcome that terrible crime committed on you...Did you get married? Had children?
jim 2 months ago
I was also 14. Difference was that he was drunk and I was not. It was my 34 yr old cousin. The day after, he apologized and cried. He has continued to apologize for the last 11 years every time we see each other. For me it was special. I always had a crush on him and I really sort of instigated the situation. He has never forgiven himself and I feel bad for him. Sure, he should have conducted himself properly, but in the end I never felt victimized, nor do I now. It is a fond memory I have of the occasion and I will always love him in a certain way.
Jerrica 1 month ago
Jerrica did he used a condon? How didn't you got pregnant? Luck?
Jim 1 month ago
Jerrica did he used a condon? How didn't you got pregnant? Luck?
Jim 1 month ago
No condom. He pulled out
Jessica 1 month ago
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